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Most people would find this a silly question, but the fact remains that a large number of people really have no idea to have fun. Many of these people that don’t know how to have fun are people with a lot of responsibilities that take up most of their time. Their responsibilities weigh so heavily on them that, even during their downtime, they can’t help but continue to think about these serious matters, usually pertaining to business or family.
Another problem that exists with having fun is that different people have different ideas of fun. Most people have fun at parties, and when someone talks about having fun, they usually mean in a social setting, like at a party. To be sure, not everyone is capable of having fun at parties, but you can increase your ability to have fun at parties by following a few pointers.
First of all, you have to try to forget those important matters weighing on your mind. Let them go for a couple hours. The world will not collapse if you stop thinking about them. If you can manage it, try not to fake having fun. Being real will attract more people toward you. Try to get excited about the event. Talk to people. Ask them questions, and listen to their responses. If you live in a bubble, read a magazine or newspaper before you go to the party. This way, you will be armed with many topics of conversation. Force yourself to loosen up a little bit. Don’t be afraid to dance. Try to leave the party with at least one phone number of a possible new friend.
 Posted 5375 day ago
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